A LOCAL STARTING POINT
A parent needs help.
Where do you begin?
Start with the Aging Commission of the Mid-South for information about services for older adults, adults with disabilities and family caregivers. Describe the need—help at home, meals, caregiver relief or transportation—and ask about the right program, eligibility and availability.
Call 901-222-4111Aging Commission of the Mid-South
Medicare
Get Medicare help without a sales pitch
Tennessee’s State Health Insurance Assistance Program provides free, unbiased Medicare counseling to eligible individuals, families and caregivers. Call 1-877-801-0044, or contact the Aging Commission’s local SHIP coordinator at 901-222-4105. Ask for help understanding your choices before committing to a plan.
Tennessee SHIP · Local SHIP contact
Your next step
Have your questions, current coverage information and medication list ready for the counselor. Ask how costs, participating doctors and prescription coverage compare for your situation.
Property taxes
Check tax relief and tax freeze separately
The Shelby County Trustee administers distinct Tax Relief and Tax Freeze programs. Tax Freeze is for qualifying homeowners 65 and older; Tax Relief serves eligible older adults, people with disabilities and certain veterans. Requirements differ. Call 901-222-0200 for current applications and deadlines. The Trustee does not administer municipal Tax Relief for Memphis, Germantown or Collierville.
Tax Freeze · Tax Relief
Your next step
Ask which program applies to each of your tax bills, what documents you need and whether you must renew. Confirm city requirements separately with the applicable municipality.
Legal help
A local starting point for elder-law problems
Memphis Area Legal Services identifies elder abuse and financial exploitation among the issues it addresses. The organization provides civil legal help for people with low incomes in Shelby, Fayette, Tipton and Lauderdale counties. Contact MALS to ask about eligibility and whether it can help with your particular problem.
Memphis Area Legal Services
Your next step
Describe the legal issue first and ask what documents to gather. If planning ahead, ask a qualified attorney about the arrangements appropriate for your family.
Active living
Find a place to move—and people to meet
Memphis Parks’ senior centers offer recreation and social programs, with age requirements varying by location. Lucille McWherter’s programs serve ages 55 and up; Ruth E. Tate lists programs for adults 50 and up. Check each center’s current schedule, registration rules and fees before going.
Memphis Parks senior centers
Your next step
Ask about beginner classes, accessibility, parking and whether you can try an activity before joining. Choose a location you can reach regularly.
Skills & technology
Make the computer work for you
Memphis Public Libraries offers free computer classes at different branches, along with online learning resources. Start with the skill you need most: using email, managing files, navigating the internet or becoming more comfortable with everyday technology. Check the library’s calendar for current classes and registration.
Memphis Public Libraries
Your next step
Tell the library what you want to learn and ask which class fits your experience. Confirm whether equipment is provided or you should bring your own device.
Work & retirement
Give your next chapter a realistic starting point
Still working, considering part-time work or planning retirement? Social Security’s retirement resources let you explore benefit estimates and application timing. Use the official information as a starting point for a broader conversation about household expenses, work and the life you want to lead.
Social Security retirement resources
Your next step
Write down your expected monthly expenses, the work you want to continue and the questions you need answered. Bring those questions to an adviser who can assess your own circumstances.
Help at home
Before a move, explore support at home
The Aging Commission of the Mid-South assesses care needs and eligibility for home and community services. Its OPTIONS program includes homemaker assistance, personal care and home-delivered meals. Call Information & Assistance at 901-222-4111 to ask what may fit your parent’s situation, including availability and any cost sharing.
Aging Commission in-home services
Your next step
Describe which everyday tasks are becoming difficult, whether your parent lives alone and what help the family already provides. Ask about eligibility, waiting lists and the next step.
Caregiver relief
A break for you is part of the care plan
The Aging Commission lists caregiver education, counseling, support groups and respite services. Respite can provide relief from caregiving duties, with eligibility requirements for particular services. Ask about in-home help or adult day care rather than waiting until the family is overwhelmed.
Family caregiver services
Your next step
Ask which services are available, how often they can be used, what they cost and how arrangements are made. Be clear about the hours when you need help most.
Meals & connection
When getting a good meal becomes difficult
MIFA Meals on Wheels serves nutritionally at-risk adults 60 and older who are frail, homebound or disabled. Eligibility screening begins with the Aging Commission at 901-222-4111. MIFA also offers community dining; ask about the nearest site and its application process.
MIFA senior programs
Your next step
Ask about service availability, any waiting list and meal arrangements. Explain whether shopping, cooking or getting to a dining site is the main difficulty.
Care facilities
Where to turn when care is a concern
MIFA’s Long-Term Care Ombudsman program advocates for residents of nursing homes, assisted-living facilities and homes for the aged. It investigates and mediates complaints and helps families understand residents’ rights. The program also serves people considering these facilities in Shelby, Fayette, Tipton and Lauderdale counties.
MIFA ombudsman resources
Your next step
Keep a clear record of your concern, including dates, what happened and whom you contacted. Ask the ombudsman how to raise the issue and what information is needed.
Lifelong learning
Go back to class for the pleasure of it
Rhodes College’s Meeman Center offers noncredit adult courses across the humanities, sciences and arts. Its classes welcome curious learners, and many offerings allow in-person or online attendance. Consult the current program for dates, fees and registration rather than relying on an old course list.
Meeman Center for Lifelong Learning
Your next step
Ask about the subject, reading expectations, location and online access. Choose a single course or session that fits your interests and schedule.
Volunteering
Put your experience to work for a neighbor
MIFA offers volunteer opportunities through Meals on Wheels and its Long-Term Care Ombudsman program. The roles have different training and commitment requirements. Ask which opportunity fits your time, interests and ability to travel.
MIFA volunteer information
Your next step
Ask about orientation, the weekly commitment, transportation and any screening requirements. Explain the skills you would like to contribute.